![]() ![]() ![]() We don't talk enough about how much we like sex. … We talk so much in our culture about how much we want sex or not, how much we have sex or not. You have what you need to have an expansive sex life, you just need to know how to do that. Q: Another title for your book might have been, "You Are Normal."Ī: It doesn't sound aspirational, but in a way it's the most aspirational idea of all. Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, and the coauthor of Burnout: The Secret. One person can experience spontaneous desire and be convinced the other person is broken because she never sort of out of the blue says, "Hey, how about we do a thing?" When you learn that all you have to do is create a context that allows desire to emerge, you realize you've been trying to fix something that isn't broken. ![]() One person told me it saved their marriage. The idea that you can be normal and not experience spontaneous desire is huge. ![]()
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